I recognize now that I have uncaringly offered “assistance” many times in my life experience. People didn’t always need my help, they didn’t always want my help, and sometimes my help wasn’t truly helpful. It was actually a way for me to get my way. At the deeper level, my help was making the situation go faster and therefore getting those things done my way for the outcome I wanted, I think true genuine help could be about helping them achieve the good outcome they desire.
Maybe I wanted so bad to plant some rows of sweet corn, when all along….they were looking for a cabbage patch.
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This was wonderful.
Thanks brother. I appreciate you reading these posts.